It is easier to assume that you know how your partner thinks and feels. Unfortunately, a lot of times we only realize our part of marital challenges when we have traveled deep into the pain of relationships. Every problem in the world is a problem of relationship. The sooner one embraces this fact, the sooner they are able to embraces the challenges of living with and staying married to a person that is different from them in every way. Dear Sarah: A letter to My Ex-Wife shows a single sided view of a husbands experience in a first marriage. To those experiencing marital crisis, here is a vantage point to bank on. Learn from those who have experienced what you experience now and be wiser.